How to Create a Sacred Space

I want to preface this whole post by saying that the word SACRED has a different meaning for everyone!  For some it may mean religious, for others, it may mean spiritual and for many more it could just mean private and personal.  It doesn't matter what the definition is as long as it has meaning for YOU! 

A "sacred" space should be where you want to spend your time. It should attract you by its calm and quiet and keep you in its serenity.  It doesn't matter what you do there.... read, write, meditate, or even sleep, the point is that you ARE THERE!  

I have friends who have the ability to make every space feel "sacred". No matter what we do, they add the special touches that others forget. Over time I have tried to pinpoint the details that transform these spaces from ordinary to extraordinary and these are the things I came up with:

1. Find a space that can be private and feels special to you.  This does not mean it has to be a room away from everyone else, it’s just a space that you can call your own when you need it to be.
 
2. Make it comfortable. No matter what space you are working in, (a whole room or a special corner), make sure that you are comfortable.  Add some pillows, blankets, furry rugs.... whatever makes you want to stay for a while.

3. Surround yourself with your favorite things. We all have favorite books, keepsakes, photos, plants, flowers, stones, beads, cards...anything that brings you joy should have a place in your sacred space.

4. Create the mood you’re looking for.  Adding scented candles or incense will help set a certain mood.  It is said that scent is the sense most closely connected with our memories.  You can create a feeling and special moment with the aroma surrounding you.

5. Time. Making a conscious choice to spend time in the space you create will be what makes it sacred.  Make this space yours alone or share it with others on a special occasion but USE IT.  The more time you spend in it, the stronger the energy will become.   

A sacred space can take time to design.... just take one step at a time and enjoy the creative process.  

I would love to see some photos of what you come up with!